One of the greatest traps of the human mind, the intellectual creature, is to get caught up into struggle, dilemmas, losses, grief, suffering of all kinds. You do not make enough money, and this will constantly make you anxious and troubled.
You broke up, or remain in a huge fight with, a significant other, and you will remain attached to this suffering for a very long time. You never let go of the loss of your child or other family member, and you allow this to keep you depressed.
You have a mental disease from childhood abuse, and this brings trauma to your present so you allow it to dictate how you live. This is the dangerous loop of the mind. It keeps you trapped, enslaved; and you like this.
You like feeling like a victim at times. It gives you something to which you can hold on. But this cripples you. Life must be lived with a little laughter, much more positivity, no attachment at all, and more love and kindness with yourself.
Follow me on my Facebook public page: https://www.facebook.com/AsaRodriguez3