Look deeply into your troubles, into the anger you feel, the loneliness, the envy, the heavy stress, the obsessive desire to possess someone or something; and discover the buried thinking patterns, so you can rise above that feeling and realize that you are bringing this onto yourself.
Complications, hardship, suffering is the construct of our petty, little minds when attached to our physical perceptions. Everybody seeks dating, commitment, marriage, kids; thus, you observe this, you attach a “happiness” and “love” label to it, and so you develop the desire to copy.
You see others get wealthy, better jobs, expensive cars, great shopping; therefore, you believe that this is the “normal,” that this is what happiness really is, and that you desire to be part of this tradition and collective desire of the unconscious masses.
So, you do this, you struggle to be part of all this society nonsense, and you even fill your mind with constant anxiety in the process. Why…?? Does it make you truly happy??
Do you even truly understand why you obsess about this and feel the nagging need to be this way, always seeking, copying, competing?? So, this is your ego, the secret obsession you have to achieve more and more; but you judge if it works for you or not.
Inquire into yourself and find out why you seek this and desire to achieve and even belong to the collective, because if you do not inquire into it then you will never really understand yourself, your life, and what love and happiness are beyond any petty desires you may have.
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