Future love, future happiness, future freedom–these do not exist more than just imaginations and machinations of your ego. “I will be thankful when I have this.” “I am so close to being happy.” “A little more work and I’ll achieve my goal.” These and more are false manifestation of our ego.
Life is now and it is to enjoy now, not to suffer for what you do not have or have lost and want to recuperate. Accept your life as it is now, whether your ego labels it pleasant or unpleasant; and enjoy what you have now, do not follow dreams and neither fall into memories of past losses.
If you do not accept your life as it is now, then you will suffer more anxiety and live on psychological suffering, which will manifest on physical suffering as illnesses. There are people in the world who are homeless and have less than you; but they still live happily in the moment day by day. There are people in the world who have lost more than you and have suffered much more than you; but they, nevertheless, do not allow depression to bring them down.
Now, this is wisdom; to celebrate your life each day, each moment, because life is now. So, whatever you lost, you lost. Whatever is gone, is gone. And whatever will be, will be. Learn to wisely live with it.
But, do you know what is under your control…?? Do you know what builds your experience of love and happiness…?? The wisdom is Now, the happiness is Now, the choices are Now; so, however you choose to live your life, remind yourself that there is only Now.
So, you must find the joy, the good side of things now, whatever you experience seek in there something good; for there is ALWAYS something, for he is wise who finds the hidden joy in the moment. Find the hidden miracle.
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