“A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.” ~ George Jean Nathan; American drama critic and magazine editor.
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart.” ~ Helen Keller; American author, political activist, and lecturer. She was the first deaf-blind person to earn a bachelor of arts degree.
We may agree that human love and the many ways we have to share this love between two people romantically involved is complex, and even deeply trying at times; but it is also an important part of our society, because it is certainly deep connection that which drives that society onwards.
And so men and women have their differences, of course, and thus their individual roles in a fruitful relationship; however, they both should aid each other in remaining receptive to love, they must find then ways to see beyond their differences and rule over their individual egos, for the ego is always the one who endangers true love by covering the truth about one another, that we are one and the same beyond our prejudice and known physical roles.
Fears may come up and burden a relationship, struggles, moods, heavy commitments, chaos even; but, nevertheless, the essence of true love, if there really exists one in the couple, is always there, through the changes designed by time and the worries space or any distance creates.
And it is one of the most important roles to protect that flame of love, or to care for it so it doesn’t become a victim of the prejudiced ego.
It is the responsibility and privilege of both man and woman to protect this flame from outside dangers, like other affections, financial roller coasters, the tyranny of aging, and the many struggles encountered in life; however, is man, by his given personality gender, who carries the strongest aspect of it, because as the main protector of the relationship there must be diligence and wisdom in all he says and does, he must then display this safety to the woman he loves so she feels she has a safe place where her emotions may develop further in the relationship.
This does not mean, obviously, that only men should carry the brunt of this job, nor that women should wait for men to display this protection. The relationship, if it is to be effective and based on eternal love, must be equal parts; and must be also founded on self-love, for if each member does not have self-love then the relationship won’t last, because self-love expands love outwardly onto both.
Self-love is the only constant in a human being, so learn to embrace it before anything.
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